First weekend of October

Where should I start off at? First weekend of October and things were going okay on Friday til 3:15pm when I received a call from my husband who informs me to call our insurance agent because my twin Vero was in an accident. After finding out that she is okay, just shook up and they will "just talk to you when we get home" I figured everything was going to be okay. They get home I ask the who, what, where questions and its like pulling fuckin teeth. Like Im supposed to use my mind-reading powers and just move on. I ask where is the police report? "It's in my purse in my friend's car". Why I ask? Why is it in your friend's car when you just got off work? Why was your friend there? Im over here thinking that perhaps friends from work seen what happened and they stopped to comfort her. So two hours pass and this "friend" finally dropped off the report. Why did this friend park around the corner versus just beep in front of my house and just give her the report. Well I read the report, low and behold, the accident did not happen right after she got out of work, it happened at 8:44 in the morning. Why isnt my daughters name on the report? Oh that's because her loser boyfriend was once again driving the fuckin car? What is her story....oh this is good and it goes something like this....

"I was driving waiting to turn, some lady hits me from behind cuz she was in

a rush. I got out the car and the paramedics and cops came. The paramedics

said not to drive the car because it was leaking break fluid so my "friend" moved

the car to the side, the cops gave him a ticket for being behind the wheel

when he moved the car to the side. (mind you that he doesnt have a license)

I told them I was the one driving. I didnt

go with the paramedics and when I told the cop I was driving he still gave the ticket

to my friend."

Its funny how my husband read the report before me and didnt even notice the driver's written on the report. Funny how I read the report and noticed that very first before anything else! Oh and it gets better. I started asking the who, why's, and what's and she has the nerve to cop and attitude. And even more when I call her "friend" a loser. The same loser whom she got locked up with not even 3 weeks earlier and she still on the same BS. Oh and that's not the cherry on top of the cake. My husband, Vero and my other twin jumped on me and told me that Im a negative person, nothing good comes out my mouth. WAIT?!!! Did I get in this traffice accident? Was it me that let that loser drive? NOPE! Cuz if it was up to me it would've taken the car away with the first stupid ass inicident. NOPE that wasnt my choice! It was my husband's choice to turn the cheek as aways and has never changed! BUT IM THE BAD GUY for evening coming up with such an idea! And here we are, a car that might be totalled from rear end damage and because my stupid ass daughter rather than coming at us with the truth got caught up in a lie and couldn't answer the questions correctly let alone fast enough! I told my husband God forbid he could even say I was "right", no that would be too much, so lets just put me down some more. So after all that was said and done, naturally I sit on the couch, scolded for speakin my mind, I have to have a certain tone, say things a certain way so noone can take them as negativity. Naturally, Vero walks out and leaves because things are panning out her way, Sandy leaves because she says I have nothing good to say and Chewy leaves telling me ALL MY FAULTS. I sit there on the couch, more fuckin daggards BUT its cool. Like I told them, pray I die quickly for I like a dumb ass have gotten a pretty hansomely life insurance for them all to spend when Im gone. Its either that to gain my saninty or I'll come to terms and be leaving in my car sooner rather than later. Only God knows where he wants me to be. 

Saturday was pretty much quite. The girls never came home until early Sunday morning. Chewy ignorned me pretty much on Saturday so I spent some time with my nieces and nephew outside by a fire pit and just laughed. They didnt even have a clue that of what I was experiencing, going thru, and the thoughts that I was having. My family as dysfunctional as they are, sometimes that dysfunction is what I need to make me forget about my dysfunction at home. Seen some old grammer school friends Saturday night as well, good times and good laughs. Got does work wonders now that I sit here and type. Sunday was the annual Houby Day Parade. That lasted two hours, seen that, came home and then went to my softball game. I actually got to play, I was cather of course and I did hit the ball and ran pretty slowly but I had a good time. I went home and just made a few jewlery pieces and went to bed. I know, Im a plain girl living the plain life. LOL.

Here are my niece's and nephew. Love them!